Umbusi's Blog 18 of 2019 | The Power of Saying No

Its the proverbial two letter word, often undesirable when you desperately need something or someone to help you.

No, the definate and unmistakable No. Artists have performed songs on it, knowledge merchants like myself prize it as one of the tools of personal mastery.

No is powerful, because until you actually say no, you have not really decided what it is you want or do not want in your life.

You need to say no often, to a job offer that seems dodgy and whose terms and conditions seem to be vying for your heart and soul.

When you care for someone, say no to something they want, because they do not need it.

Saying no, in almost all circumstances, is actually saying yes to yourself.

Umbusi Ziqalo
Speaker • Thought-Leader & BestSelling Author on Transformational Leadership • Blogger • Employability • "Become, Don't  Just Acquire"

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