Umbusi's Blog 32 of 2019| You are Not How You Feel

It is probably the most powerful force in your intangible constitution, your emotions.

Wars are started by them, ego rides on the wave of emotion. Relationships are started and abruptly ended on their account.

You are however not your emotion, you may be known through them, their highs and lows, but you are definately not them.

The next time they kick in, do not allow them, if they will make you do something you will regret.

Use your emotions, to transmit powerful information, but don't be used by them.

You are not how you feel. You are HOW you use them.

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